Everyone seems to be having a bucket list and some of these things are mad scary. I know the ‘yolo’ feeling is strong but these things look extremely dangerous to Tomiwa Ekisola. I am definitely no Will smith simply because ‘I no wan die’. …


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Recently, on Twitter NG #JusticeForJennifer was trending on twitter NG. Why? A girl named Jennifer who is 18 years old was gang raped by five boys in Kaduna state. Luckily this story has gotten the state government attention, hopefully something good comes out of this. …


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Lately on social media, specifically twitter, women have been naming and shaming their abusers (cheers to that).


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The year is 2020, it’s Mother’s Day and Michael prepares to write an epistle for his mum on social media. He begins to type these words on social media “Happy Mother’s Day mummy, thank you for being strong. I would never forget your fatigue and exhaustion when I fell sick…


What is cancel culture?

Cancel culture is a form public humiliation or shaming with the aim of holding an individual or a group accountable. A pictorial representation of that would be the walk of shame that Cersei was made to do in game of thrones. …


ENTITLEMENT TO FEMALE LABOUR

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It’s that time of the year when the cooking conversation comes up. Initially, I used to get tired of these types of conversations but after seeing the hot takes I think it’s necessary we have these conversations.

First things first, grown men are threatening their hypothetical…


The definition of purity culture varies widely due to personal interpretation, but the general idea is based on a teaching that purity of body and mind is idealized above everything else. It may look harmless at first glance but then we factor in the inherently unfair world we live in…


Growing up, I always heard the story of Vashti being portrayed as the disobedient wife that we as “good girls” shouldn’t be like. Th at story was used to show us the consequences of deviating from the culture of “ submissiveness”. Now that I am older, I really doubt that…


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Hello my people, it seems that I am getting serious. Showing up the second time this month, to Jesus be my glory. Hanyway, when I thought about support systems I immediately thought about bras. Which is odd because I do not like bras, yes I am in the ‘let the…

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